Ayra Starr’s Mum Is Concerned That Most Gen Zs No Longer Have A Mind Of Their Own

Nene Aderibigbe, mother of Nigerian music sensation Ayra Starr, is cocerned that social media is slowly taking away the ability of young people to think for themselves, as she weighs in on the growing influence of social media on Generation Z.

Aderibigbe believes that many young people are becoming so consumed by their phones and online opinions that they are gradually losing touch with their own thoughts, ideas and abilities.

According to her, social media has significantly changed the way the younger generation thinks, with many now looking to others for opinions and direction rather than trusting their own judgment.

Expressing her concerns, she said:

“Social media has just turned a lot of things upside down. They don’t have their own thinking again; it is only people’s thinking they use now.”

But her concern goes beyond excessive screen time.

Aderibigbe also believes that many young people are incredibly talented but may never fully discover their potential because they are too distracted by what is happening online. In her view, the constant noise of social media can make it difficult for young people to recognise and appreciate what they naturally have to offer.

So, what’s her advice? Put the phone down!

She encouraged members of Gen Z to deliberately disconnect from their devices for at least two to three hours daily. Rather than spending every free moment scrolling through social media, she wants young people to make room for self-reflection, personal growth and meditation.

Sharing her advice, she said:

“Take your time, drop your phone down for two, three hours, do mental note, put your head down, take a mental note or meditate.”

Her message is a reminder that while social media offers entertainment, information and opportunities to connect with others, there’s also value in stepping away from the screen and listening to yourself.

After all, sometimes the best ideas, talents and answers are discovered not while scrolling through someone else’s life, but while taking time to understand your own.